Respecting their Lifestyle

Yes it was difficult but how you dealt with the difficulty I know I used humour to deal with the difficulty. I guess your self-mechanism of preservation or helping yourself to cope with the area. The poverty, especially Rwanda, was very hard to see. I know I went I think it was Lieutenant commander Harwood, he was an MO, went for a walk and saw the villages up in the hills and people living in huts made out of mud and straws and seeing the female part of that tribe. Their job was basically going down and walk five kilometres down the hill, put water in these buckets, put it on top of their head and walk all the way up the hill while the male portion, the younger male portion would take care of the herd. The elder males would just sit there and smoke their pot all day, that’s the mentality of these little villages. One thing the doc said, he said, “Denis, don’t bother explaining to them where you come from or where on earth you are from because these guys only see as far, their world exists as far as their eyes can see because some of these villagers haven’t been more than two, three kilometres from where they were born. You explain beyond that, they can’t do it!” Me being all over the place I had a hard time to conceive that part. Again, the value of life of their system. If you weren’t a part of that particular tribe or family tree, their cattle was worth more than you were.